Dr. Phil is my idol. I mean it. I love that guy. I think the thing that I love the most about him is the way he just says things right out. Instead of beating around the bush, he just says it. That's what I love. So many people find excuses to blame others for their mistakes. So many people lie to make themselves look good. So many people don't want to look in the mirror because if they did, would they like what they see. Probably not. I believe those people are idiots. One day, they will have to deal with who they are and what they have done with their lives or what they have not done with their lives.
Today on Dr. Phil, he was asking a guy who had an affair with one of his employees, did you mean for this to happen? The guy said, "no." Dr. Phil said "so, you would drive over to this person's house in your car, do whatever you would do with her, then leave and go home to your wife? The guy said, "yes, but I wasn't looking to have an affair." Dr. Phil said, "that is not a "WHOOPS. That is a premeditated decision to clandestinely affiliate with someone else on a repeated basis. That is a conscious and premeditated act that you made the decision to do. The problem with affairs is not who you lie with, but who you lie to." How many people are affected by your selfish acts?
Enough said.
Or what about those people and we all know them, who continually attempt to justify their actions. It's like you just want to scream, "just shut up and admit that you screwed up." You messed up. You are a fake. I would respect someone so much more if they were to be honest and truthful right out front, then try to justify every action they take or every word they say. Seriously, that's the problem in today's world, everyone tries to blame everyone else, instead of growing some balls and admitting they are the problem. What are we teaching our children? To lie and justify everything to get out of trouble? That isn't right.
When I look in the mirror, I like what I see. I like the person I am and the person I have been. I hopefully will like the person who I am going to be in the future too. There's so many things that the future holds. It's gonna be great!
I am not perfect. I am far from it. But I am humble enough to realize that when I hurt someone's feelings, I say I'm sorry. Ron probably disagrees with me on that. Huh, dear??? Love ya!
Here we are....and this is our blog. Family is our passion. This is my attempt to document our lives. Ron and I raised three kids, who are the pride and joy of our lives. More than anything in my life, I have loved being a mom. It has been the funnest and hardest time in my life. I love my family. I love being a grandma now and look forward to each and every little spirit that comes into our family.
